Tina L Porter

The Underpants Resolve

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The Underpants Resolve

You will have to decide for yourself if the following is TMU (too much underpants), but I had a revelation that led to a resolution that I decided to share here and it has to do with my underpants. Perhaps I’m also doing this because the one other time that I wrote about underpants I […]

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Tina L Porter

“Set Deep Inside This Love”

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I’ve just started reading Brown Girl Dreaming by Jacqueline Woodson, given to me as a parting gift from a beloved mentor. I’m taking my time with it because it is a memoir written in verse, stunning verse which stops me in my tracks for moments at a time. For example: “Welcome home, my grandparents say. […]

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Tina L Porter

Why I keep posting about race

Family, Ferguson, Grace, Justice, Parenting 4 Comments

I think I have had some white friends “unfriend” me lately. Or block my posts. I haven’t looked hard enough to know for sure, but I see that some people’s posts no longer show up on my facebook feed. I’m guessing it is because I’ve been reposting a lot of articles about race that make them […]

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Tina L Porter

Christmas will come

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Christmas will come

Heartbreaking. Heartbroken. It’s taken all day to get here, where my fingers hit the keys and my head and heart explode into a ton of tiny little details. Children. Killed. Again. Terrorism. Racism. Xenophobia. Fear. And then I read people crabbing about the stress of the season in the midst of all this and I […]

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Tina L Porter

Spirits of All Days Past … and Future

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Spirits of All Days Past … and Future

I just found myself standing at the dining room window, in my bathrobe, holding a coffee cup, watching the elementary school bus stop across the street for the neighbor’s child. Staring out at the big yellow bus, clutching that warm cup, I felt myself transported over the years. How many years ago did I do […]

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Tina L Porter

Slowly … slowly re-entering

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Slowly … slowly re-entering

It is nearly 11 am on a Thursday. I got up, gracelessly, at 7:10 and drove my daughter to school, which is part of the plan that I had made for myself so that I would not sleep the day away and wonder how my “sabbatical” slipped away from me. But last night I took one […]

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Tina L Porter

Thanksgiving

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Thanksgiving

I am thankful that today I woke up thinking of all the people who will gather at my house later NOT of a list of things I needed to accomplish. Faces came to mind this morning, not tasks. Let’s let that sink in for a minute because this is something quite huge for me: Thankful for the […]

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Tina L Porter

Along the Way

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Along the Way

I’ve been spending the last few days reading, watching, praying. I’m not entirely sure what I’m praying for, but am praying for this moment in our country’s history to percolate through white America and hear the hurt. Hear the pain. I think of Michael Brown’s mother, and the body lying in the street for 4.5 […]

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Tina L Porter

To My White Friends And Family

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To My White Friends And Family

I won’t have  much to say about #Ferguson today because so many are doing it much better. But I will ask you, my white friends and family to please consider–before you speak–about what it means to be black in America today. Before you say anything, please consider: our reality is not the same as that […]

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Tina L Porter

Finding My Feet

Cats, Family, Grace, Gratitude 3 Comments

There is a turkey to brine and a mother to pick up at the airport. A bed to make, a bathroom to clean–again. And breakfast–why do we have to do THAT every. single. day. But in this minute, I am sitting quietly in my chair, a cat at my feet and one behind my head, […]

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